
This is because the brain recognises the action and target "meet-Sally" and not the words, "I don't want".
So to attract positive things that promote health and spirituality, practise constructing your thoughts with positive action words. For example, if you are afraid of losing your things, look at your things and say, "Stay with me" instead of thinking, "I hope I won't lose you".
To be able to re-construct our thoughts and speech in positive ways, we could take a deep breath to clear our minds. This goes back to our very first spirituality and health promotion behaviour: Pause.